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Infidelity is a subject that carries significant emotional weight and societal implications. It’s a topic that many shy away from, yet it’s a reality that some individuals unfortunately face. At LOI Investigations, we understand the gravity of the situation and approach each case with the utmost discretion and professionalism. Our private investigators are trained to handle these sensitive matters with the care they deserve.

The Signs of Infidelity

Before delving into when one should seek professional help, it’s crucial to identify some common signs of infidelity:

  • Emotional Distance: A noticeable change in emotional closeness or frequent emotional unavailability can be a red flag. This emotional distance often manifests as reduced communication, less affection, and a general sense of growing apart.
  • Secretive Behaviour: Unexplained absences, increased privacy around phone or computer usage, and other secretive actions may raise concerns. These behaviours can include changing passwords, deleting messages, or even taking calls in private.
  • Financial Anomalies: Discovering hidden bank accounts, unexplained expenses, or other financial irregularities can be indicative of infidelity. These anomalies may include lavish gifts, hotel bookings, or even hidden assets.

When Self-Investigation Falls Short

While it may be tempting to conduct your own investigation, this approach has its limitations:

  • Emotional Toll: The emotional strain of investigating a loved one can be overwhelming, affecting your judgement and well-being. The stress and anxiety can also have long-term health implications.
  • Lack of Expertise: Without professional training, you may overlook crucial evidence or misinterpret information, leading to incorrect conclusions. This could result in unnecessary strain on your relationship or even legal complications.

The Role of a Private Investigator

A private investigator can offer a range of services to assist you:

  • Surveillance: Monitoring activities and interactions to gather evidence. This includes following the subject, capturing photographs or videos, and documenting interactions that may be used as evidence.
  • Financial Investigations: Tracing financial activities to uncover hidden assets or expenditures. This can be crucial when marital assets are at stake or when you suspect funds are being diverted.

When to Come to Us

Here are some scenarios where professional help is advisable:

  1. When You Need Concrete Evidence: If your peace of mind is disturbed by lingering suspicions, a professional investigation can provide the concrete evidence you need. This evidence can be instrumental in making informed decisions about your relationship.
  2. When Emotional Involvement Clouds Judgement: Personal emotions can cloud your judgement, making an unbiased investigation difficult. A professional can approach the situation objectively, ensuring that all evidence is gathered meticulously.
  3. When Legal Proceedings are Imminent: If you’re considering divorce or legal separation, professionally gathered evidence can be invaluable in court, especially concerning marital assets or child custody.


Infidelity is a complex and sensitive issue that requires a careful and professional approach. If you find yourself in a situation where you suspect infidelity, LOI Investigations is here to assist you with a confidential and thorough investigation.